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Can’t Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000

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Hey BABs! Long time, no see. Can you believe we’re only a few weeks away from 2015?! Me either. I haven’t forgotten about you my BABs, things just get a little crazy around this time of year but I’M BACK! And this week we’re helping Erin get over a Reem Acra gown that Oliva Wilde wore to the 2008 Emmys. It’s no surprise, as you’re sure to always find her gowns on the red carpet. Reem Acra was born in Beirut, Lebanon. She worked in luxury interior design for 3 years before starting her career as a fashion designer saying herself that interior design is very much like designing clothes. Reem started her company in 1995 after she designed a wedding gown for a friend. She was able to get the dress in The New York Times and then invested $20,000 in luxury fabric. I would say she made a pretty good investment! So, we have got to help Erin out since her big day is just seven months away! Here is what Erin had to say:

“I’m in desperate need of help! My wedding is next July 2015 and I still don’t have my dress. I have my heart set on the Reem Acra dress Olivia Wilde wore. The only issue is it’s way out of my price range. Nothing I’ve tried on compares to that dress. I need help! Honestly I’d like to stay around $1000 but I have some wiggle room. Thank you so much for your help!!”

Damn that silk for being so luxurious and so damn expensive! No worries, girl! Chiffon still gives you that same, flowy, elegant feel.

Can't Afford It

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000Reem Acra Gown $5,950 at ShopBop

Get Over It

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000Floor-Length Sweetheart Chiffon Gown With Sequins (Style: 0020564725) $177 at

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000Chiffon Gown With Lace Cap Sleeves (Style: 11631) $310 at

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000Charmuese Lace Gown With Off The Shoulder Lace Straps (Style: 11601) $330 at

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000Lace Gown Over Sequin Bodice (Style: 1049) $550 at Dessy

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000A-Line Chiffon Dress With Inverted Basque Waist (T670) $538 at

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000

Tulle Gown with Crystal Embellishments by Tadashi Soji (Halcyon) $180 at BHLDN

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000A-Line Gown With Lace Cap Sleeves & A V-Back (Style: 325062) $750 at Ann Taylor

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000A-Line Gown With Soft Illusion Neckline & Flowing Tulle Skirt (Style: 33158643) $970 at BHDLN

Since you have a little wiggle room, I included these:

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000A-Line Dress With Silk Chiffon Skirt & Beaded Sleeves $872 – $1097 USD at Grace Loves Lace

I already did the US conversion so don’t worry about the prices on their website. The price depends on the length of the train you choose.

Can't Afford It? Get Over It! A Reem Acra Inspired Gown for Under $1000Sheath Gown With Paris Chiffon Over Rosario Crepe Back Satin (Style: Bryce 4MC897) $1,129 at

This dress offers free shipping as well as free shoes & a veil!

So, I’m feeling pretty good about this. (That Grace Loves Lace dress, tho!)  I really want to help because 7 months goes by even faster when you’re planning a wedding! Let me know what you think and if there is anything our team can help you with! Until next week, BABs …

Got a gown that you just can’t get off your mind? We’re happy to help you get over it! Just tell us in the comments below! Please remember to include the budget you’re working with so we can find you the best alternative for you.

*As always, please do your own research before buying a gown online. Team Broke-Ass is here to provide you with inspiration and resources, but it is up to the consumer to know what they’re purchasing.


Can’t Afford It? Get Over It! Vera Wang’s “Noelle” Inspired Gown For Under $2,000

Hey BAB’s! I was starting to wonder when someone would come around with a Vera Wang request, as she IS the absolute QUEEN of bridal wear. This week we are helping lovely bride-to-be, Alana. She, like many of us, (me, me, me!) has fallen in love with Vera’s Fall 2014 collection. This collection is EVERYTHING. It is all about the pink, and I mean all of the best shades of pink from blush to vibrant coral. This particular dress, “Noelle,” that we’re helping her get over is a beautiful coral, strapless mermaid dress made from organza flange accented by faille blossom, pleated organza and floral beaded embroidery. I had some trouble finding a price for it but I’m pretty sure it’s between $8,000 and $10,000. Here’s what Alana had to say:

“I have a DESPERATE plea for a “Can’t Afford It/Get Over It” post –
Vera Wang’s Fall 2014 Noelle Gown – that drop-dead-gorgeous coral/orange color.  I called the store – it retails for $6500.  Ugh!!!!
I need a dress like that (a bright coral/orange or a vibrant peachy), cheaper AND in plus size!! I need something super fabulous because I am the bride!!!  HELP!!!!!!! :)”



Well, let’s help this, plus-size bride find something as fabulous as she is!



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OriginalVera Wang’s “Noelle” $$$$

Get Over It

WeddingDressTrend180Floor-Length Mermaid Sweetheart Neckline Dress (Style: wd81210187) Sizes 2 – 26W – $180 at

TBDress198Strapless Trumpet/Mermaid Floor-Length Tiered Wedding Dress (Style: 09647014) Sizes 2 – 26W – $198 at

TBDress248Strapless Mermaid Gown With Cascading Ruffles (Style: 10467203) Sizes 2 – 26W – $237 at

WeddingDressTrend240Strapless Mermaid Dress With Ruffles (Style: wd81210759) Sizes 2 – 26W – $240 at

TBDress331Strapless Mermaid Gown With Beaded Flowers At The Mid Bodice (Style: 10075856) Sizes 2 – 26W – $314 at

BestBridalPrices498 Gown With Basket Weave Bodice That Flows Into A Slight Mermaid (Style: 4978F) Sizes 14W – 26W – $498 at

RealSizeBride500Silk Taffeta Plus Size Ballgown  Sizes 10 – 30 – $499 at (Flower & Bow come in other colors.)

BestBridalPrices590Tulle Gown With Sweetheart Neckline & Beading On The Bodice. (Style: 6198) Sizes 00 – 24 – $590 at

WeddingDressFantasy995Gothic Wedding Dress – Available In Every Color (Style: CP816) at

This site has a ton of options. All dresses come in every color and are available in sizes 0 – 40! Or, you can even design your own dress and they will make it for you. Check out some of their custom designs.

BestBridalPrices1699Opal Organza Gown With Ruched Bodice (Style: V7153BB) Sizes 0 – 28 – $1,699 at

So, lemme just explain what I did. ‘Cause I know there are a lot of colors but most of these dresses come in different colors as well. All of the colors in fact! You could totally customize your own gown, girlfrand! Especially on the Wedding Dress Fantasy site where the Gothic gown above is from. There are so many dresses to choose from and you can get them in the colors you want — like peach and coral. Also, with some of these dresses, you can actually get them in any color, even if it’s not listed. So, I hope I was able to help. I really think getting some custom made is your best option. Please let me know what you think! Until next week, BABs …

Got a gown that you just can’t get off your mind? We’re happy to help you get over it! Just tell us in the comments below! Please remember to include the budget you’re working with so we can find you the best alternative for you.

*As always, please do your own research before buying a gown online. Team Broke-Ass is here to provide you with inspiration and resources, but it is up to the consumer to know what they’re purchasing.

Real Bride Peach: Finding the Dress and Budget Badassery!

Guess what, y’all?!?!  I found my dress! Wheeeeeee!

As you saw from my boutique reviews, I didn’t find my dress the first round. Or second. Or third or fourth or fifth!  In actuality, I found my dress on the SIXTH round of trying on.  Good grief, right? I think I stopped counting after 50-something dresses. And let me tell you, for a pretty simple, non-girly-girl, that’s a LOT of lace and poof to put on her body.

Before I became a BAB Real Bride, I wrote a few posts about my self-imposed guidelines going into the bridal gown shopping experience. You can find them here and here. But the short version is that I knew what I wanted, but I kept an open mind. I remembered to stay under my budget and staunchly ignore the shrunken sizing. I brought along my mom and MOHs for the first three boutiques, and a different set of girlfriends for the next one, and I did two appointments on my own. Through each experience, I learned more about what style flattered me most. And yes, without revealing too much, it WAS slightly different than what I thought would be my final choice.

Bonus points for friends who make these custom t-shirts to wear to the appointments! Because NO BUTT BOWS ALLOWED. EVER. (for me)

The shopping, overall? It was fun. Yes, you can read here about my not-so-pleasant trip to Bridals by Lori of “Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta,” but despite that one dark spot, who in their right mind can really and truly hate on getting to try on gowns worth thousands of dollars each that are designed specifically to make you look and feel amazing??? Not this Peach!  I slid my Crossfit booty into ballgowns, sheaths, drop-waists, strappys, backless-down-to-my-butt-crack options, sweethearts and dramatic v-necks in tulle, satin, chiffon and silk of all textures and colors from blush to peach to diamond white.  And it was awesome. Not gonna lie.

Real pic of me right before trying on my first wedding dress ever. Which turned out to be … terrible.

In the end, I found my dress at an appointment I’d made on a whim and I’d gone alone. The night before, I’d found a boutique online that was right around the corner from me. I booked an appointment for the next morning. After I woke up, got dressed and was armed with coffee, I left the fiance sleeping soundly in bed and went to the appointment. It was the 4th of 5 dresses I tried on there. And the minute I slid it on, I was laughing, posing, twirling and grinning ear to ear. Because I just knew. I could see it. The ceremony in the garden. Dancing with him afterward. Boogie-ing down with my friends. And maybe getting a little teary with my mom and dad before the ceremony. No other dress gave me the vision. It was as simple as that.  I said yes. I signed the papers. And I didn’t look back.

It’s the dress that I want and I found it my own way, which in itself is empowering, that no one has seen me in it (other than in pictures) but me.  I absolutely adore it and I feel amaaaaazing in it. Done and done.

And because this is The Broke-Ass Bride, I’d be remiss in not sharing my budget advice. First and foremost, stick to your guns. Don’t even step a pinky toe into a dress that is over your max budget, no matter what you’re told by a consultant. Keep in mind the extra costs: taxes, fees, alterations and accessories. I tried to keep those included in my budget to make sure nothing slipped!  And never, ever be afraid to politely ask for discounts. In my case, when it was explained what amount was due today vs. due later, I asked if there was an incentive offer for paying in full right now. Good businesswoman she was, she offered me a 10% discount on the dress, veil and accessory for paying in full.

Peach’s final tally for her dress, her veil and an accessory, plus all taxes and fees? $1150.00.   Not too damn shabby, if I do say so myself.

For what it’s worth, the dress that I ALMOST bought at a different boutique was $2499.00 just for the dress alone. And I think there’s a reason I just couldn’t bring myself to get it, despite how gorgeous it was. Not only was it already over my max budget (my MOH said she’d throw a car wash to make up the difference, bless her!), but I know now that it just wasn’t THE dress. And I don’t regret waiting until I found the one I bought. I love it.  YAY!

What about y’all? Did you find the dress the first time out? Did you have a huge entourage? Or was it more of an intimate solo experience like mine? 


Real Bride Jess: Saying Yes to the Dress

One of the first things I did after getting engaged was find my dress. This was purely by accident. It wasn’t on my to-do list to find my dress so early, but I was glad it happened!

First, I have to show some love to The White Flower where I found my dress. It was wonderful! I went twice and both times had great associates who were personable, friendly, and totally awesome. You schedule an appointment so that it’s just you, you entourage, and the stylist in the whole place. They were great about my vague “I want to spend as little as possible but get everything I want” budget as well as the fact that I didn’t know exactly what I wanted.

The first visit I went with two of my roommates and the second time I went with just my mom.

Another awesome thing about this place: they let you take pictures! It was great to be able to go home and look through the slideshow and pick our favorites.

After I picked the dress, however, there was a whole new type of questioning that I hadn’t anticipated. This included:

– Can I see a picture?

– Will it be long enough?

– Is it white or ivory?

– Will it be hard to find a matching veil?

– Are those sleeves?

– How will you wear a bra with that?

– What will do with it after the wedding?

Some of these questions I could answer: Yes it will be long enough, technically it’s ivory, yes it has little sleeves, it has a built in bra thing.

The most difficult question by far is “Can I see a picture?”. Before I was engaged it was obvious to me- I wouldn’t show my dress to anyone but my mom. What I didn’t take into consideration was how freaking excited I would be about my dress! I wanted to show everyone! If you asked me if I had found my dress my answer was “Yes, do you want to see a picture?!”. What I decided was this:

a. The pictures that were taken at the salon didn’t do the dress justice, so it won’t really give it away to show them.

b. I’m not sending it to anyone, so the three seconds they see of the dress will probably be soon forgotten.

c. It’s fun! Who doesn’t love being oohed and awwed over?

That being said, I’m not going to put the pictures of me in my dress online (what if Michael saw them?), but I will give you a tiny peek.

Real Bride Andrea: The Wedding Racket


Here we begin the slew of photos of the two of us where I’m looking at the camera and Travis is disinterested.

 Why is it that, as soon as you tell vendors you’re inquiring about their services for a “wedding,” prices double and sometimes can even triple? It has become very clear over the past month that most hear the word “bride” and only see dollar signs over my head!

This past week I learned a very valuable lesson: I sent an inquiry email to our desired venue, a desert ranch in Joshua Tree, that started with, “We want to have our wedding at your beautiful venue…” Yes, I had already broken a cardinal rule of the Broke-Ass Bride herself! I had shown all my cards up front and mentioned our wedding. Now, it should be known that this ranch can be rented per night for $160, per week for $1,000, and per month for $2,500. These are incredible deals because this place knocked our socks off. How much more could they possibly charge for a little ol’ wedding? Well, it turns out that “wedding” was the magic word because, guess what? The owner of the property happily replied, “Weddings at our ranch are $2,500. That includes a 2 night stay and the use of our laser lights!” (Uuuummmm, thanks for the $2,000 laser light show, dude.)  I was shocked! I mean, $2,500 is not that much for a great venue, but what’s with offering 2 nights for the price of a month just because we’ll be having a wedding while we stay? Yeah, yeah, there are lots of liability issues, I guess. So, lesson learned.  After some sound Broke-Ass advice, I’ve learned some ways to negotiate my way through future interactions. But this really got me thinking about the “wedding racket.”

People pays thousands for cake (flour and sugar) and flowers (freely growing all over the earth) and dresses (white prom dresses) simply because vendors know, we will stop at nothing to have a perfect day.  I know I’m pretty green to the wedding scene, but this seems so cruel to do to couples just starting out. Another example of this: The other day, I went to browse wedding dresses in this cute little boutique in Burbank, CA. There were awesome dresses that were “reasonably” priced between $1,000 and $2,500. I found some I liked. I tried a couple on to get my feet wet and was getting really excited but was still suffering from some sticker shock. Could I justify spending THAT much on a dress I’ll wear ONE day? As I left, I decided to browse the “prom” section of the store for fun. I noticed an entire rack of white prom dresses. I as thumbed through these, I noticed some were strikingly similar to the dresses on the bridal side of the store but instead, ranged from $150 – $300. What is the difference? To me, there didn’t seem to be any.

Actual quote:

“It is because this bridal gown will be worn on the most important day of your life! Be careful because you get what you pay for.”

I’m not encouraging anything here…. I’ve no experience… but it’s not totally out of the question at this point.

This salesperson used two tactics. She placed epic importance on my wedding day and then tried to scare me into spending more money. Yikes. This next year dealing with vendors is gonna be really interesting.

I think I’ll be throwing a Junior prom in April of 2015 instead of a wedding.

This. We’ll just do this for the wedding, er I mean, prom. Maybe we’ll just throw a Bat Mitzvah? Both less expensive than a wedding.


Here’s to battling the wedding racket,

BHLDN’s 2014 Line Has Arrived and it’s Delicious

YOU GUYS. BHLDN has done it again. If their offerings weren’t already completely drool-worthy, they’ve solidified their reign as the Bringers of Bridal Beauty, the Providers of Pretty, the Sultans of Swoon, the … whoops, I’m getting a little carried away. You get the point. BHLDN’s 2014 line — The Heirloom Collection — of dresses and accessories is gorgeous, and some of it is shockingly affordable. Set your sights on pretty mode and ogle along with me:
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 Tamsin Gown, $1,600

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Amada Gown, $800

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Faye Gown, $1,000

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Caspian Drops, $170

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Tiffany Gown, $1,800

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Crystallized Satin Sash, $100

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Champagne Sparkle Heels, $139

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Martine Dress, $650

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Sterling Lace Dress, $650

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Hyacinth Dress, $425

Those heels, the Tamsin Gown and Sterling Lace Dress kill me. Which are your faves from BHLDN‘s newest additions?

Real Bride Ellis: Back-Breaking Wedding Planning, Dress Woes, and Getting Sh*t Done!

I wanted to make a second post sooner but I actually really hurt my back and have been trying to figure out how to go to both my jobs, make it to class, and even find/buy a wedding dress with about 50% range of motion.

My wedding is just under five months away and I realized a few weeks ago, “Holy crap, I haven’t found a dress yet!”  I am not a sample size,  so this is a concern as that means I can’t buy off the rack. I went to a bridal shop down here (Southern Oregon) with my future mother in law  and my future sister in law three weeks ago and it was an absolute disaster. The shop was rundown, the consultant had bad breath, and I was feeling really pressured to choose from the “bigger” dresses because apparently they don’t order out, just sell what they have in store and alter it for you. My future sister in law bought her dress at this shop for $300 a couple years ago and insisted they had a huge selection. She was right, they do have a huge selection, over 600 dresses, all size 0-10. What happened next was probably one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. The consultant put me in a hideous dress which was about 5 sizes too large for me and insisted it “fit perfectly”. I couldn’t even look at myself in the mirror before I burst out in tears (not happy tears, very very sad tears) because I felt gigantic and disgusting. She brought me back into the room and said she had some “better” dresses and came back with 3 horrendous dresses at the top of my budget. I shut down completely and told her to help me out of the under garments because I was leaving. It was an awkward ride home, I was holding back massive tears and had it set in my mind that because of this setback, we would have to cancel our wedding. A very dramatic night unfolded in which we came to an agreement for us to travel to Portland (the closest large city) so I could go back to the smaller boutique I had an incredible experience at about 9 months ago.

A few days later I twisted my ankle and sprained something in my lower back. I literally could not stand up straight, dress myself, or bend in any direction and was in agonizing pain. I missed work and school the entire week, setting me back both financially and academically. I  was afraid that my injury might cause me to miss my dress appointment in Portland and thus ruin my chances to get the dress experience I was after. Thankfully, I started to make some progress, and paired with heating/cold packs and medication I made it the 6 hours to Portland.

I got to spend a lot of time with my maid of honor and she even got to come with me to the dress appointment. The experience was completely successful. The shop is beautiful, they carry gorgeous but affordable gowns, and they understand that I might not be a size 10, but I want to see myself in a beautiful dress all the same. I was not shoved into any ill-fitting frocks, but in fact, had my choice of gorgeous organza, silk, lace, and taffeta.

I tried on and fell in love with over 12 dresses, while narrowing them down to just two that I loved: a lace, empire waist, champagne colored Casablanca:


And a ruffled organza mermaid/drop waist Mori Lee ombre gown:

Obviously they are completely different and I loved them for different reasons. I could not take off the Casablanca but I have loved the Mori Lee dress since I first found it online about 7 months ago. I did end up buying the Mori Lee gown because it just felt right and I am so glad for my decision.

Wow: I bought my dress! I do have to go back in late May/early June, cutting it very close to my July 5th wedding for alterations, but I am happy and I feel very relieved. I was told that most brides do the dress thing really soon after getting engaged and leave other things to last minute; I’m not sure why it wasn’t a huge priority of mine. I guess I felt like I had so much time with an 18 month engagement but suddenly, time is going really fast!

My back is still messed up and I have to drop a class to make time for physical therapy, but it is what it is. Aside from getting my dress, we also ordered our invitations and rsvp cards because VistaPrint is having a sale!

All in all, I had a really productive week but now I’m heading into midterms and I’m moving next weekend so I think wedding planning will be on the back burner for another week and a half.



Eco Couture Bridal Designer Elizabeth St. John Introduces A “Name Your Own Price” Offer On Wedding Gowns, Exclusively For BABs

We love Elizabeth St. John, and she’s been especially sweet to our readers over the last few years – but this holiday season, she’s rolling out a particularly eye-popping offer with savings that we can barely even fathom! Liz has agreed to sell a wide variety of her most popular wedding dress styles, gowns which usually retail for $400 – $2500, for…your best offer.

Allow us to explain…all a BAB has to do is select the style of her choosing, fill out this handy offer form with the amount your comfortable paying as well as style info, size info,  payment info, and other relevant deets, submit it via fax or email (301-879-8001 or, and wait to see if your offer is accepted! If it is accepted, CONGRATS, you just snagged a beautiful, custom, American-made designer wedding dress at a price you can actually live with! If your offer is declined, don’t worry, each bride can submit up to 3 offers.

The madness isn’t limited to brides, however – bridesmaids and flower girls can also take part. There’s also bridal sashes, hair accessories, and bow ties up for grabs! You can find a full catalog of the styles and pieces on offer for all parties available for download right here. Regular retail prices on all items have also been included, for your reference.

This exclusive, BABs-only offer is limited to 25 wedding dresses, 20 destination bridal dresses (styles shorter than tea length), 50 bridesmaid and flower girl dresses, and 15 bridal accessories. (The bow tie savings, however, are unlimited. BOW TIES FOR ALL!) 

BABs have until midnight on December 1st to submit their offers, so start crunching those figures! If you want to save even more, you can get FREE SHIPPING on your order when you follow Elizabeth St. John on Facebook or Twitter! (International brides will receive a $50 shipping waiver.)

Let us know what your favorite Elizabeth St. John style is (and your dream price) in the comments below!


ModCloth Has Bridesmaid Options For Sizes XS-3X – All Under $100!

ModCloth Bridesmaid Options

From left to right: Guest of Wind Dress ($35), Blueberry Iced Tea Dress ($45), Effortlessly Enchanting Dress ($60), and Antique Photos Dress ($45). 

One of our biggest cost-saving tips for bridesmaid dress shopping is don’t shop for a “bridesmaid” dress. Any dress that is prefaced with the word “bridesmaid” will cost your favorite ladies at least $300, on average. ModCloth has a ton of bridesmaid-ey options available for sizes XS-3X that retail in the much more affordable ballpark of $40-$100. (They also have a great assortment of plus size dresses.)

If you’d like to have a little fun with your b-maid options, give your girls a pattern or a color scheme to stick to, like “lace”, “peacock”, “floral”, or “black and white” instead of putting them all in the same frock. These are just a few of the styles we love for weddings, all available at ModCloth! And for winter weddings – don’t forget to stock up on tights and cardis!