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My fiance and I LOVE a good party. We have budgeted for 150 guests at our wedding, but there are more than 150 people that we want to celebrate with us. The long and short of it is: we cannot afford to feed everyone. We are having a great local cover band, and we would like to send out secondary invitations for those acquaintances to join us, after dinner has been served at the reception. Is is tacky to ask an additional chunk to come at 8:00 for dancing and drinks but not the ceremony and dinner? How should we word those invitations so as not to offend anyone?
Down to the Count
Not to be harsh, but I don’t really see that going over very well. Basically, you’re saying that you don’t like them enough to invite them to your wedding and pay for their meal, but just enough to hang out with them when it’s going to cost you less money. It’s not what you mean, but it’s definitely what you’re saying. And I don’t know if you sent Save the Date cards to them, too, but if you did, eyebrows are definitely going to rise, just like their expectations did.
So, what to do, what to do? A couple of things, I think. Figure out how much each additional person would cost you, and look at the various pieces of your budget to see where you can make some cuts to accommodate. One step down for your meal, or one less appetizer? Stick to beer and wine and a specialty drink? Don’t go top shelf on the liquor? I don’t know what you’re doing now, but there are almost always places where you can cut and still be comfortable with what you’re getting.
And, realistically? Not everyone is going to be able to attend, anyway. I’m not the biggest fan of B-listing potential guests, mostly because it’s a lot of work, but try and make it work for you. Send your invitations out early enough to the 150, and then for every “No” you get, send one out to the B list.
But, I would definitely do a budget check, first.
The only other option is to not invite them, period. And, yes, this means that you won’t have everyone you want at your wedding, but most couples face that reality, sooner or later. You’re really not doing them, or yourself, any favors by sending out a half invite. Invite or do not invite. There is no “try.”
I am a bridesmaid in my childhood best friend’s wedding. I knew I’d have to shell out some bucks, but I had no clue how much I was expected to spend… until now. She’s had an engagement party, a bridal shower, a honeymoon shower, and now her two-day destination bachelorette party is coming up. I told the Maid of Honor that I wasn’t sure I could go if it’s going to cost me more than $300. She has already booked the hotel, but every time I ask her for the total amount I am expected to shell out, she dodges my questions. This has happened three times, so far. It’s getting to be frustrating. I’d hate to cancel last minute on it, but she really won’t communicate with me. Plus, it’s a surprise for the bride, so I can’t talk to her about it. I also have to have a minor surgery a week before this shindig. I don’t want to jeopardize my recovery process by going on this weekend trip, either. My question is, do I stay or do I go? I feel that I will risk the friendship of not only the bride, but also the Maid of Honor (who is another childhood friend) if I didn’t show up. I wasn’t at her bridal shower (same day as my grandma’s 90th birthday party) so I feel obligated to go to this bachelorette party. Yet at the same time I don’t know how I will be physically after this surgery, and I do not want to go broke because of this bachelorette weekend. If I do not go, how do I break the news to the maid of honor? This is really stressing me out!
Bottom line? You can’t go. I’m really sorry, I know you want to celebrate with your friend, I know you’re worried about your relationship with her and your other friends. But you will be a week out from SURGERY, and if you’re talking about a “recovery process”, then it isn’t that minor. Not only is it a really good excuse, it’s a really good reason. Plus, it’s not going to help your stress level, before or after surgery, if you’re worried about how you’re going to cope, financially.
Being a bridesmaid is expensive. The last time I was one, about 4 years ago, it cost me over $1,000, and I see girls in my weddings spending that and more. I was honored and thrilled to be a part of my friend’s day, as are all the other bridesmaids I’ve met and known. I’m not saying that it wasn’t worth it. But, that’s not a small amount of money – it just isn’t – and that should be taken into consideration.
So, how to tell the MOB? Tell her that you’re having surgery the week before, and you don’t know how you’re going to feel after it, or what you’ll be physically able to do. So, you can’t go. If you think you can pull it, give her $50 – $100 to buy a round of drinks at the party, or figure out how to get it to the bride, with your name on it.
What are the tricks you used to afford all the guests you want? And, what do you think about Bummed’s predicament? Let me know in the comments below! And, if you would like to find out more about me and my little part of wedding world, visit my website at www.silvercharmevents.com.
See you at the end of the aisle,
Ladies, these are the days when anything goes for your bachelorette bash. Want a prim and proper afternoon tea? Go for it. Looking for something a little more … sexy? No need to bring in the male strippers. Why just ask for lingerie when you can ask your favorite ladies to get you something to help spice up your life in the bedroom?
Adam and Eve sex toys run the gamut from completely discreet to scandalously outrageous and everything in between. From the famed Rabbit to smaller buzzy buddies, your girls have a wide range of options to leave you giggling at the party and blissed out in the bedroom.
You may be a little shy to go get your own secret pal, but surely you have a gutsy girlfriend who has no qualms about bestowing you with a helpful bedroom aid. And hey, no need to fly solo with your new toys…your partner may want to get in on the action, too!
Adam and Eve also offers a range of lingerie and other accessories to help keep life interesting between the sheets. Don’t be shy, your sexy spouse-to-be is sure to thank you…over and over again.
This past weekend, the three, local bridesmaids met me in Manhattan for a few fun-filled days of food, sightseeing, and tap-dancing men. We celebrated everything from the impending end of my single days, to a 25th birthday….and it was fantastic!
The whole weekend was conceived when we found out that a tween favorite of our youth would be coming to Broadway for a limited engagement. Can you guess where I’m going with this? I’ll give you a big clue:
Photo via moviefone.com
EEEEE, it’s Newsies The Musical! Seriously, raise your hand if you developed a lifelong Christian Bale crush while dancing around to “Seize the Day” in your bedroom as a kid (raises hand).
Okay, now before you get mad at me……I know a weekend in Manhattan is a crazy, expensive, indulgence. However, my parents had given me a Broadway.com gift certificate for my birthday (thanks again, parents), which I had been saving for the perfect ocassion. Since I didn’t want the bridesmaids to go broke either, we shared the gift certificate, which brought the ticket price down to $70/ticket.
Two of the bridesmaids were coming up from Philadelphia, and I live an hour outside of the city now, so we also decided to spring for a hotel room. I booked a discounted room in Chelsea through Priceline Name Your Own Price, and the location couldn’t have been better. We were within walking distance of Penn Station and Times Square (which saved us money on cab/subway fare), but I’m not sure that I would do the Priceline Name Your Own Price thing again. I’m glad that I tried it out in a city that I know really well, but I was disappointed that I couldn’t specify a room with 2 double beds. Of course we ended up with a room with 1 bed, so I ended up putting together a makeshift bed on the floor with extra pillows, which was actually surprisingly comfortable. On the whole though, I thought the entire Name Your Own Price process was kind of annoying.
However, that little setback didn’t dampen our spirits…..or our excitement over seeing a rag-tag group of newsboys take on Joseph Pullitzer (as expressed through song and dance, of course). Newsies totally delivered, and we had a great time picking out the So You Think You Can Dance stars in the cast. I’m not going to lie though, the whole atmosphere was a little Bieber Fever-esque, but I think that only added to our enjoyment of the tween cult classic. Plus, we discovered that drinking is allowed in the theater, so one of the bridesmaids enjoyed a refreshing Jack and Coke throughout the second half of the performance.
After the show, we headed down to Restaurant Marc Forgione in Tribeca for dinner, and OMG it was delicious! Two of the lovely ladies shared the chicken under a brick, which was basically a skillet filled with chicken and potatoes swimming in chicken fat. Definitely not on the pre-wedding diet plan, but we definitely did not care.
Devouring the chicken
More of the amazing food….
Afterwards, we headed over to the Brandy Library for a very classy nightcap, and one of the bridesmaids had this super cool whisky tasting flight:
I can’t say enough great things about girls’ weekend, and I’m so glad that we decided to spend our money on delicious food and tap-dancing men instead of novelty straws and nightclub covers. Absolutely worth every penny!
Did anyone else do something fun, and a little unconventional to celebrate the end of bachelorette-hood?
There’s a lot of ways to reward the ladies in your life – you know, the gals that are gonna hold the tiny bouquets, host your bridal shower, and plan your bachelorette party. Sure they’d love lots of hugs, a few sincere “thank you” cards, etc. etc. But do you know what people really love? Favors. And not the chintzy, plastic tokens that usually get conveniently left behind when the night’s winding down. You wanna give your bffs a little gift that’ll make them remember how truly awesome that evening was. WeddingFavors.org has a wide range of adorable, quality favors that hit that sweet spot of meaningful, yet affordable gift giving.
Check out these super cute “Lucky Elephant” candleholders! They’d be ideal bridal shower favors for Bollywood-themed shower or bachelorette party. Or if you wedding is going to be a circus-themed fete, they double as placecard holders! Or, if your besties are planning a sophisticated, Parisian-inspired bridal shower, might we suggest these “Evening In Paris” silver finish favors?
Or maybe your only bridal shower theme is BOOZE? We can’t say we blame you…and of course, WeddingFavors.org has a wide selection of champagne flutes, bottle stoppers, even eco-friendly bamboo coasters! Personally, we’re quite partial to these Personalized Stemless Wine Glasses:
Whether you’re shopping for favors for a bridal shower, a wedding, or any celebration, WeddingFavors.org can hook you up with tasteful mementos for any occasion. And we’ve saved the best news for last – most of their best-selling favors are under $1.50 each! They’ve definitely earned the Broke-Ass stamp of approval, AND they’re showing BAB readers some love with an exclusive offer – get 15% off any order of $50 or more when you use the discount code “BAB15″.
When this post goes live, I’ll probably still be sleeping off my bachelorette party. I am writing from the night before my bachelorette party, though, with hope in my heart and excitement in my belly. So as I lay me down to rest, I pray my party is the best:
Our Woo Girls Who Art in Heaven
A Prayer on the Eve of my Bachelorette Party
May I get drunk, but not too drunk. Sub-prayers:
- I would rather not turn into a crying mess of “I’m so sorry for [transgression from college years]! I love you sooooo much!”
- I would also like to not become physically ill.
- A hangover is OK, though. I have purchased pre-emptive Gatorade.
- I would like my memories intact. Because I intend to make some memories.
May I not be the drunkest one there. Or god forbid the only drunk one. For saddest is the Woo Girl who Woos alone.
May I make it through the daytime winery-visit portion without spilling any vino on the borrowed white dress I will be wearing.
May I pull off the little black dress I have planned for the evening bar-hopping portion, despite my fears that a little black dress is too boring for words no matter how rocking the underlying bod may be.
May my feet not hurt despite my unreasonably-tall shoes.
And despite all the dancing I wish to do? And may some of that dancing happen on a bartop or at least a table?
May I fight off DrunkFace and manage to look cute in photographs even into the more slurred hours of the evening.
May the people I meet on the South Side [for the non-Pittsburghers, the South Side is the clogged storm drain of the city collecting a filmy puddle of under-dressed women, Ed Hardy enthusiasts, and Blue Curaçao] be skeevy in the blog-worthy stories way, not the “I need to file a police report” way.
May I run into another Bachelorette Party and have a bonding moment, but also clearly be having more fun than they are.
And Woo Girls, most of all, may I have fun? And may all my bachelorette-ettes also have fun? Let it be a great party.
Oh, and one more thing: May I be spared from penis-shaped novelty items, generally.
What are your hopes for your bachelorette party?
When we left off after phase 1, we gals processed upstairs to find the fantastic limo I’d arranged, waiting for us to move the party on in! I found Mike through Craigslist, proposed a price, and he accepted! Let that be a lesson to you broke brides who think you can’t afford limo service, y’all. We paid $200 (including gratuity and stocked bar) for 6 hours of safe, reliable, clean service!*
When we arrived at Tokyo Delve’s Sushi Bar, they weren’t quite letting folks in yet, so we lapped the block a few times in the limo and killed some time knocking down a few beers, in preparation for…….
SAKE BOMBS! If you haven’t had a sake bomb yet, you’re in for quite an experience. Let me educate you on the way of the bomb, y’all.
Step 2: fill up a sake cup and balance it precariously on your chopsticks above the beer.
Step 3: when the waiters chant “Sake Bomb Sake Bomb, when I say sake, you say Bomb!” you pound your fists on the table until your glass tumbles into the beer.
Tokyo Delve’s is a great time for so many reasons, but my favorite is the N’Sync dances that the staff do while you’re eating.
Apparently, I was in the bathroom. Booooo. So much for a group photo. I wish I would have peed five minutes later so I could have been in that great shot!
As you can imagine, we were in quite a way after this dining experience. Perfect timing, because our next stop was Jumbo’s Clown Room – an “exotic dance club” which basically means non-nude poledancers. We couldn’t take any photos in there (not surprising) but I will say its very clean and fun. The girls that dance there are extremely talented, and the crowd delightfully unskeevy. Some girls do fun theme-y outfits, too, which is always interesting.
Join us next time for our final installment, phase 3: Karaoke! You’ve already had your teaser there, so just hang on for more photos worthy of blackmail status.
*locals, feel free to contact me for limo contact info.
Although the horror of seeing myself in some of the photos has not yet worn off, I am ready to begin the recap! Thank you to my loyal commenters, for assuaging my fears of a mass blog exodus, after seeing me in all my karaoke glory. You gals rawk.
First up, the shower portion of the night, otherwise known as dress MaPo up and play silly games.
Since MaPo was staying with us, I asked Hunter to take her out for an hour or so to let me get the house ready. I frantically blew up balloons, set out decorations, organized prizes, and put on some mood music. Luckily, a few of the guests showed up in time to help finish things off… and they came bearing penis cupcakes and limo music mixes! MaPo had no idea what awaited her that evening… every step of the way was a surprise!
The mixtape cover art, courtesy of “Savannah”*
Yum, strawberry penis candies!
Then we kicked the men to the curb, and got down to business. We all made a drink, enjoyed a penis-cake, and let the games begin!
I had picked up some fun bridely accoutrements, including a hottie whistle, sash, light up button, shot-glass veil, and more. MaPo loooooves dress up!
Then we played some games. We started off with “Purse Raid“, moved onto Sweet, Sexy Advice, Carve the Cucumber (a personal favorite), and the NearlyWed Game. We’d also intermittently have MaPo pop one of the penis-shaped balloons around the room, and answer the naughty question on the paper inside. It was so much fun, and everyone got to win a prize! I highly recommend these games. The NearlyWed game is extra fun if you can get the groom to record his answers on video and play them during the game… alas, this was not to be in our case.
The prizes ranged from naughty trinkets like the “Tongue Dinger” and a pocket “personal massager” to fun novelties such as Skull Lip Gloss, light up rings and silly sunglasses. All the girls seemed really pleased
“Suzy Furburger”**, with a penis balloon betwixt her leggies.
Taco, big pimpin in her prize
MaPo opened some gifts – a Victoria’s Secret gift card, an awesome book, and the infamous Climax Rabbit to name just a few. Suffice it to say, she
will be was a very happy girl!
Before we knew it, the time had come to move on to Phase 2: Sake Bomb Sushi! Here are a couple teasers to whet your palates for even more debauchery!
*All names have been changed to protect the innocent.
**Each lady named herself!