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Spring is just about on the horizon, and I couldn’t be happier about it. Although I have no room to complain about the relatively mild winter I’ve experienced compared to some of you, I’m always glad when the days start to get longer, and the weather takes a turn from the gross. Lately, the days have been downright balmy, and my thoughts have turned to gardening, because I am a hobbit at heart and it’s hard to be grumpy around growing things. So I figured, why not share my love of playing in the dirt and show you how to turn your bouquet blossoms into a living keepsake?
First things first: If you think you might want to plant your bouquet flowers, you’ll need to ask your florist to keep some leaves on your stems, because no leaves means your blooms don’t stand a chance. You’ll also want to be careful about keeping your bouquet in water any time you’re not using it, and you’ll want to start this process as soon as you can after the wedding to give your new plants the best opportunity to thrive.
Once the big day is over, you’ll only need a few items: the flowers you’d like to plant, one potato per flower, and some rooting hormone. You’re really only limited by your planting area. It really doesn’t matter which brand you buy, whether it’s gel or powder, but if you’re looking for a suggestion, you could go with CloneX, because the name makes you feel like a mad scientist wantonly wielding power. Cackling optional!
You’ll want to make a hole in each of your taters, precious, to accommodate your stem. I recommend working out some post-wedding aggression by stabbing them with a ballpoint pen, which are right around the correct size.
Once all of your holes are made, take each stem you want to plant, cut it below a node, dip it in water and then in your rooting hormone.
Tap off the excess back into the container, and then stick your stem into the hole you made in the potato. The additional moisture and nutrients from the potato will help your flower to set new roots, as well as providing support for it to stand upright.
Once each of your stems is in its respective tater, it’s time to plant those bad boys! You can plant them in individual pots or directly in the yard, just make sure you’re putting them in a spot appropriate to their type–most roses will need at least six hours of sun per day to thrive. I planted this one in a pot that I used as a centerpiece at my wedding–so you can have multiple items pulling double-duty, beautifying both your wedding and your home! It’s too small to accommodate a rosebush for long, so eventually I’ll be transplanting it to a larger pot or the yard. Be careful not to overwater; better to err on the side of underwatering as the potato will provide moisture, and you don’t want the stem to rot. Just water until the soil is damp, not soaking wet. Your flower should set roots in the potato in two to four weeks. If you tug gently on the stem where it meets the potato and it resists, it’s set roots!
This method will only work on flowers with a root system, it won’t work on anything that grows from a bulb (tulips, dahlias, calla lillies, etc). Depending on a number of factors: the weather, the time of year you plant, the plant’s suitability to your zone, and how quickly you get it in the ground after your wedding, your flowers may not survive despite your best efforts. But if they do, you’ll have your wedding blooms growing in your garden on every anniversary!
I have a number of friends who are somewhat cynical about weddings: they point to the divorce statistics and scoff that people spent so much money only to be single again a few years later. But the divorce statistic alone doesn’t tell the entire story. The idea of what a marriage entails has evolved as a cultural notion, and with it, so have our individual expectations of it. Among the marriages that endure, those who are happiest in their marriages now are actually happier than at any point in history. Conversely, those who are unhappy in their marriages are more unhappy than ever before. But still, isn’t sublime happiness worth taking the chance and making the effort? You don’t gain anything by refusing to try.
ARE marriages today better or worse than they used to be?
This vexing question is usually answered in one of two ways. According to the marital decline camp, marriage has weakened: Higher divorce rates reflect a lack of commitment and a decline of moral character that have harmed adults, children and society in general. But according to the marital resilience camp, though marriage has experienced disruptive changes like higher divorce rates, such developments are a sign that the institution has evolved to better respect individual autonomy, particularly for women. The true harm, by these lights, would have been for marriage to remain as confining as it was half a century ago.
As a psychological researcher who studies human relationships, I would like to offer a third view. Over the past year I immersed myself in the scholarly literature on marriage: not just the psychological studies but also work from sociologists, economists and historians. Perhaps the most striking thing I learned is that the answer to whether today’s marriages are better or worse is “both”: The average marriage today is weaker than the average marriage of yore, in terms of both satisfaction and divorce rate, but the best marriages today are much stronger, in terms of both satisfaction and personal well-being, than the best marriages of yore.
Consider, for example, that while the divorce rate has settled since the early 1980s at around 45 percent, even those marriages that have remained intact have generally become less satisfying. At the same time, consider the findings of a recent analysis, led by the University of Missouri researcher Christine M. Proulx, of 14 longitudinal studies between 1979 and 2002 that concerned marital quality and personal well-being. In addition to showing that marital quality uniformly predicts better personal well-being (unsurprisingly, happier marriages make happier people), the analysis revealed that this effect has become much stronger over time. The gap between the benefits of good and mediocre marriages has increased.
How and why did this divergence occur? In answering this question, I worked with the psychologists Chin Ming Hui, Kathleen L. Carswell and Grace M. Larson to develop a new theory of marriage, which we will publish later this year in a pair of articles in the journal Psychological Inquiry. Our central claim is that Americans today have elevated their expectations of marriage and can in fact achieve an unprecedentedly high level of marital quality — but only if they are able to invest a great deal of time and energy in their partnership. If they are not able to do so, their marriage will likely fall short of these new expectations. Indeed, it will fall further short of people’s expectations than at any time in the past.
Marriage, then, has increasingly become an “all or nothing” proposition. This conclusion not only challenges the conventional opposition between marital decline and marital resilience; but it also has implications for policy makers looking to bolster the institution of marriage — and for individual Americans seeking to strengthen their own relationships.
Intrigued? Read the rest at The New York Times.
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Your “I dos” are a moment of gravitas, a quiet but weighty culmination of your decision to spend your lives together. In honor of their serious decision to make this commitment, Destry and Lanny decided on a similarly intimate wedding ceremony and reception: 40 invited guests, immediate family and the closest of friends. By this decision, they were able to spend more time with the community that has watched them sow the seeds of their relationship, helped them nurture it, and witnessed it flourish.
Names: Destry & Lanny
Occupations: Destry is a design drafter, Lanny was an administrator for a private travel company but currently attends business school full-time
Wedding location: Kingston, Idaho
Wedding date: July 27, 2013
Wedding budget: My crazyperson spreadsheet tells me our final total was $4,300-ish. We didn’t give ourselves a hard maximum. Instead, we decided to spend by priority. Neither of us gave two hoots about centerpieces or expensive favors; instead we cared about food and photos and got INCREDIBLY lucky on both counts. While we spent a lot less than the national average, we still feel like we spent an enormous amount of money for one day.
Approximate guest count: We limited our invited guests to 40, but counted on 35 attending for sure. We only invited our immediate family members and very close friends. Destry is the oldest of five, so you can imagine that it adds up quickly.
How would you describe your wedding? At the risk of sounding cliché and ridiculous, I’d describe it as a balance of country, rustic and vintage. We kept it subtle though. We didn’t want guests to feel like we were beating them over the head with kitschy crap. We didn’t have time or energy to invest in kitschy crap either.
What was your favorite part of your wedding? It’s a cliché, but it’s so true: It’s really hard to choose one favorite. I would say that driving from our hotel to the venue together was so special and important to me. We both had a chance to be alone together, in our own car, just being together, quietly. Because we knew it was going to be such an emotional day, that short drive was so important to both of us.
We were lucky to have an equally-meaningful moment alone at the end of the night after everyone had left. The sky was inky black with bright stars and the barn was lit up with twinkling lights woven throughout the Virginia creeper that covered its entire frame; we stood silently at the top of the hill wrapped in a blanket, looking down upon the scenery and reflected on the deluge of pure love we’d experienced that day.
What did you splurge on? Without a doubt, the food and furniture were our most costly expenses. Our wedding was held over 60 miles from our home in Spokane. So, we felt it was important that we provide a really solid meal to our nearest and dearest if we were going to drag them to a mountain farm in the middle of the woods. Have you ever been to a wedding on a Saturday at 6:30 pm, only to find that it’s a cake and punch reception in the church gym/basement/lobby? Those are basically the worst (in my opinion) and we were against that at all costs.
Additionally, we really scored with a venue that embodied everything we hoped for and wanted to provide some aesthetic continuity by using furniture that didn’t clash. We found an up-and-coming furniture rental company out of North Idaho who provided some stunning pieces for us.
Also, I know it’s silly, but I totally went all out with my hair as well. I was pretty close with my hairdresser at that time, but after her two previous attempts at formal styles left me crying in the car we decided to go another direction. My hair is fairly long, but I wanted it longer for the wedding, so she offered to pick me up some extensions with her discount and color them to match my hair. After several unanswered texts and voicemails left me feeling like a jealous ex-girlfriend, I bought the hair myself and scheduled an appointment with someone else. I ended up spending a small fortune on the whole ordeal, but it felt worth it: $200 for the hair, $70 to color it, $50 for the trial and $100 for the wedding day style. (I feel compelled to note that I’m still pissed that I spent as much as I did on the day of the wedding because the salon’s active price list shows the trial hair as included in the total price.)
So, what became of my former stylist? Well, I finally heard from her three days before the wedding letting me know that she had blocked out the entire day and we could go get hair, color and style it starting at 9 AM. A note about that – the wedding took place on a Saturday, and the hair extension shop isn’t open on weekends, so despite the sketchy billing practices, I am glad I opted out.
What did you save on? Ev-er-y thing. We saved by doing our own flower arrangements – actually, we didn’t use flowers at all. We bought raw cotton online and put everything together. The allergic reaction was totally worth it. Picture, if you will, my then-fiancé and I in our non-air-conditioned kitchen, trimming and cleaning raw cotton bolls. We spent countless hours picking dried leaves out of the cotton so we could spend ADDITIONAL countless hours stringing each one just-so on jute twine and arranging them into our respective bouquet and boutonniere.
I had intended to splurge a little and treat myself to a morning of girly pampering, however that never materialized. I scheduled a makeup trial a few weeks prior to the wedding, but I didn’t feel that this woman was listening to me. I’m 30, and I don’t think it’s in my best interest to try out a new personal style on my wedding day. I’m old enough to understand what looks good and what works for me. Since I’m a jeans and hoodie kind of girl, you can imagine how hard it was to mask my disappointment when she revealed my potential makeup. Winged eyeliner and I are never going to be best friends, nor do I have aspirations of acquainting myself with berry lip-stain. Adding insult to injury, I paid $75 (after tipping, because I’m a doormat) for a look I couldn’t wait to wash off my face.
Ultimately, I didn’t feel that she was especially honest or talented so I lied and canceled my appointment about a week before the wedding, citing something about the cost being budget-prohibitive. The (supposedly) agreed-upon rate was $100 for both sessions, but I had already effectively paid the bulk of it after listening to her talk shit about everyone else in town while she applied makeup that didn’t match me or my coloring. After the rage-tears subsided, I went to Nordstrom (alone) and met with the only kind of makeup artist I can trust with utmost confidence – a gay man. I showed him a photo and he whipped my look into shape, directing me to all the right products and showed me how to recreate his work at home. I hugged him, and practiced nearly a dozen times before the wedding and I’m thrilled with my choice to do my own.
The piece-de-resistance, though, were our photographers. We happened to have two very close friends who are, not only incredibly talented, but provided their services for free. Without their generosity, as every bride knows, we would have EASILY doubled our expenses.
Was there anything you would have done differently, in retrospect? Looking back, I would have asked more people to help. We would have had a little more fun during the planning stages if we’d allowed more folks help us out from the beginning. Instead, we stubbornly refused offers for help until much closer to the wedding date. That cotton-stringing party I mentioned above? Ultimately, my in-laws came to the rescue with four additional hands for stringing.
I can’t quite remember why we were so secretive about planning, but I suspect part of it had to do with a bizarre idea that someone might steal our ideas? Weddings make people crazy. Like, crazy-crazy.
What was your biggest challenge in planning? 1.) Hurt feelings. If I had known beforehand, how personally other people would take our wedding choices, we might have eloped. We received unsolicited suggestions, advice, and requests for invitations for people we’d never conceive of including in our celebration. It was an ongoing challenge of (and testament to) our patience, kindness, and ability to tolerate other people.
2.) Money. It would be so much easier to throw everything on a credit card, but that’s not our style for anything we do in life. We felt incredibly fortunate to have been in such a position that allowed us to do everything we needed and wanted to do on our own terms. Still, having more money might have abbreviated our timeline considerably but we don’t regret any of it.
What lessons did you learn from planning or from the wedding itself? ALWAYS (and I mean ALWAYS) have a contingency plan. ALWAYS. For good measure, have three or four backups. We picked out a favorite restaurant to host our rehearsal dinner and made reservations to hold the date (I can’t remember if we paid a fee or not). A month before our wedding, my best friend drove up from Portland, Oregon for a bridal shower hosted by my mother-in-law and I had hoped to take her to dinner there … as we were walking up to the building, it dawned on me that they weren’t just not open, they were closed. Like, for good.
Obviously, we ate elsewhere, but I was determined to keep from getting ruffled by the situation. Later in the week, my fiancé and I ate at another restaurant that had recently undergone a major renovation and appeared to be a great place to host our rehearsal – so we booked it on the spot.
By sheer bad luck, we were forced to resume our search on June 17 (about a month before our wedding) because our second choice BURNED DOWN. I crowdsourced suggestions on Facebook and had friends beg me to stop ruining Spokane with our wedding. It was about this point that I stopped giving a shit about it but it turned out to be better than I ever could’ve imagined. A family-owned bar/café where we spend Saturday nights playing trivia stepped up to bat and hit a grand slam (those are the same sport, right?) with how they handled our dinner. We told them how much we could spend, the headcount, and offered a vague suggestion of the kind of food we liked. It was such a success that our families are still raving about it to this day.
What were your top 5 favorite things about your wedding? It was a day full of love and laughter and ridiculously delicious food. Because we chose to invite literally nobody outside our immediate families and our closest friends it made the day so ridiculously special, I still struggle to elucidate my feelings.
Top 5 least favorite? We had a lot of people offer to help or provide something (mostly food) and we were far more comfortable hiring people to do that job for a number of reasons, including (but not limited to) sanitation. Remember, if you will, the comment above where I mention that the venue and our hometown are sixty miles apart – now imagine chicken salad, pasta salad, potato salad, and basically mayonnaise-based anything in someone’s back seat for nigh on two hours. Sounds like fun, right? Sorry to let the booster club down, but I’m not trying to battle diarrhea on my wedding night. For the sake of feelings, let’s just say it’s because I want everyone to have a good time and avoid being unfairly labeled bridezilla, okay?
One of my photographers is married to a former marine and bodyguard. Why on earth is that even remotely of consequence? Because my husband’s ex-girlfriend (one he’d broken up with before we even met; IN 2002.) has a super-adorable habit of making her presence known. Neither of us expected anything especially dramatic, but he studied photos as a precaution and kept her out of sight when she did, in fact, show up.
What was the worst piece of wedding advice you received? “Just relax! It’ll all come together” – Everyone who ever planned a wedding but experienced a subsequently immediate Telenovela-style bout with amnesia. Nothing ever just “comes together” and anyone who suggests otherwise probably didn’t have a DIY wedding if you know what I mean. Are you fucking kidding me? RELAX? I am relaxed (sort of), but I am still allowed to give like, ONE shit about how this day goes down. Will I remember all of it, not likely; but I don’t expect to.
The best? From my older sister, more than ten years ago: “Wedding planning is so stupid. It is literally the DUMBEST thing I’ve ever done.” Having done it, I can confirm that she’s right. The wedding itself wasn’t stupid, but the kinds of things that consumed my thoughts throughout the planning process were so cosmically insignificant; but they felt so god damned essential in the moment.
Second best was between my husband and me – it became kind of a mantra between the two of us: “This is our party; our wedding is not our marriage.”
Any other bits of wisdom? Just Relaaaaax! Okay, I’m kidding … kind of. It’s easy to get upset and overwhelmed when people overstep boundaries, but standing up for yourself is the best thing you can do when you’re planning your wedding. I desperately wish I had just told a few vendors to piss off directly instead of skirting the issue as if their feelings were supposed to take precedent above mine. I wish I had been more assertive and direct when people acted in a way that made me feel like they were taking advantage of an emotionally charged event. But there’s nothing I can do about it now. (Except write some passive-aggressive Yelp! reviews.)
Oh, and don’t you dare listen to anyone who has the nerve to tell you that you must spend more or else your wedding won’t be “everything you ever dreamed of.” Your wedding will be everything you dreamed of because you’re marrying someone you love. Anyone who suggests otherwise is presumptuous, snide and condescending.
Wedding vendors and links:
Venue: French Gulch Farm and Garden, Kingston, ID
Furniture Rental: The Attic, Coeur d’Alene, Idaho
Catering: Couple of Chefs, Spokane, WA
Bride’s Makeup: BRIDE!
Flowers, bouquet and decor: Bride and Groom designed all decor using dried wildflowers and cotton purchased online. Tabletop arrangements were styled by Groom’s brother and sister in law. (Bride made bouquet, Groom made his own boutonniere)
Rings: Bride (same ring, except blue) Groom
DJ: iTunes, operated by Groom’s brother
Invitations: Designed Online, Printed at Home (We purchased the full suite; including save the dates, thank you cards, and custom map)
Photographers: Andrew Callaci (Portland) and Nicole Varnell (Spokane)
You’re engaged (or married), you’ve got a gorgeous piece of jewelry (or you’re looking to buy some), let’s go over how to care for it to keep it looking fabulous for years to come!
You wouldn’t wear the same underwear every day for the rest of your life without cleaning it occasionally, and that’s not on display for the world to see! The more nooks and crannies your ring has, the more crevices it has to collect all of the crud you touch every day, along with sweat and dead skin cells. Not only is that gross to think about, but it also makes your rings dull, and you can’t mesmerize yourself on a boring work afternoon by casting tiny rainbows all over the room with your ring if it has been robbed of its reflective qualities by grime.
If you’ve got an antique ring or a soft stone, have your cleaning done by a professional. Soft gems, like pearls, opals, emeralds, jade (among others) can be scratched, pitted, or even destroyed with the methods used to clean diamonds. Know what you have before cleaning or be sorry later!
That said, there are several good at-home cleaning methods. I personally have used two: the Connoisseurs red tub jewelry cleaner and an ultrasonic jewelry cleaner. With the Connoisseurs, you dip your jewelry in the solution for 30 seconds, brush it with the included brush, rinse it thoroughly, and dry with a lint free cloth. It’s inexpensive and works really well! However, I stopped using it once I bought an ultrasonic cleaner. With the ultrasonic cleaner, you add water, a bit of detergent, click it on, and three minutes later, your rings are showroom gorgeous again. I prefer the ultrasonic because I spend less time handling wet jewelry over the sink (and I am so accident prone) and I can clean multiple pieces of jewelry at once as opposed to one at time in the tub. However you choose to clean your jewelry: DIY or professionally, just make sure you do it! I’m not saying that you’ll get that icky cast smell on your hand if you don’t take your ring off to clean it occasionally but just on the off chance that you might, isn’t that enough to get you to clean it occasionally?
Your jeweler probably gave you a maintenance schedule when you bought your ring. This isn’t (only) to sucker you back into the store on a regular basis to remind you that they offer “ring upgrade” packages, or that they sell suchandsuch which would be a perfect X anniversary gift, it’s an important part of keeping your ring in primo condition. Without a jeweler’s keen eye, settings can become loose or even break, meaning that you could lose your stone! If your jeweler recommends repairs, have them done as soon as possible so you reduce the risk of further damage/loss. As long as I come in every six months (and have repairs done if necessary), my jeweler will replace my stone if it’s ever lost; many jewelers offer similar maintenance deals so definitely check with yours! Similarly, while you’re there, most jewelers will also polish/redip your rings at no additional fee, which are the cleaning aspects you can’t do at home.
Take It Off
It’s beautiful and meaningful and you never want to take it off: TAKE IT OFF. No, seriously. There are times when you should be removing your rings, like when you’re doing housecleaning or yardwork–anything that involves harsh chemicals, mounds of dirt, or anything that could be roughly categorized as “goo”. Putting on hand lotion? Take it off. Planting a tree? Take it off. Making meatloaf? Take it off! You’ll also want to remove your ring when doing sports activities in which your ring could take a blow or a scratch. Diamonds are hard, they aren’t invulnerable. Platinum scratches easily and will need to be buffed to regain its former shine. If a gold ring takes a knock, you’re losing metal, which means you’ll need repairs more often. It’s so much easier to just take the ring off. And if you’re going swimming? Sweet fancy Moses, take your ring off! SO MANY RINGS get lost during the honeymoon while swimming, prettifying Nemo’s anemone and making husbands and wives everywhere angry during the early weeks of their marriage. Wouldn’t you rather be spending ring replacement money on some pampering instead of ring number two?
Keep It Safe
When you take your ring off, you should try to always put it in the same place, so you know where it is and you know it’s secure. Consistency is key! One of my friends thought she’d lost her ring and found it years later in a pill bottle where she’d put it for safekeeping. Whoops! Those were years she’d spent angry with herself, wracking her brain, wondering how she could have possibly lost her precious ring. A pretty ring holder (or a funky one, or a fun one) gives your jewelry a place to live when it’s not on your hand, which will reduce the number of panic moments in your life. Bonus: if it has multiple prongs on which to place your jewelry, you reduce clinking which can otherwise add wear or even damage softer stones/metals. Your ring’s home should never be near a sink, toilet, tub, or a heating/cooling vent. For every successful phone-on-the-toilet session, you know someone who’s heard that terrible kerplunk, and rings are eminently more flushable than phones. No one wants to have to make that call to the plumber.
You should also consider getting your ring insured by your insurance provider for peace of mind purposes, should it ever actually be lost or stolen. It’s usually covered by renters/homeowner’s insurance (which you should really have if you don’t already), you just may need to add it specifically to your policy or in some instances, bump up your coverage. It can be kind of a pain to go through all of the proper steps (I needed to fax in all of my ring info three times. THREE TIMES. I don’t have a fax machine, what is this, the 1980s?) but knowing my ring is covered in case of klutziness or theft makes me feel more at ease about the rock I’m rocking daily.
By keeping these four things in mind, you can have your wedding jewelry looking just as beautiful and fabulous at your fiftieth anniversary as it did at your wedding. It’s a ring that’s meant to symbolize a lifetime together, let’s make it last a lifetime!
Looking for a gift for your maids to thank them for their love, support, and maybe even holding back your hair at your infamous bachelorette party? Showing your thanks no longer has to break the bank, thanks to Initial Outfitters. Initial Outfitters has tons of stuff that make perfect gifts, from monogrammed totebags to pashminas to on-trend jewelry and more! Initial Outfitters doesn’t only have things that would be excellent for your maids. They’ve also got excellent groomsmen gifts: monogrammed pocket knives, money clips, tie tacks, and the ultimate dude-to-dude gift, beer koozies. Because when someone is your bro, you want his beer to stay cold, and that’s a fact. Initial Outfitters should be your first stop when looking for a tasteful personalized gift to thank anyone in your life!
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After the wedding is all said and done, photos are one of the few things you walk away with, so it only makes sense that you’ll want to have those babies in a beautiful album on the coffee table, ready for anyone who happens over to your home to ogle. Unfortunately, lots of couples end up with sticker shock when they price out said albums. Never fear: Libby James has got your back. Libby James is a professional color lab and industry-leading album manufacturer, so that modern design you wanted? They have it. Luscious covers? They have it. The best quality paper? They have it. And they’ve got it all at a price that won’t make you weep into your hanky. How do they do it? By being one of the big guys and cutting out the middleman markup, Libby James can sell albums at a fraction of the price of other companies, with an average turnaround time of only two days. So splurge! Get a larger size! Add a few more page spreads! Upgrade to a leather cover or a velvety soft matte cover! And take comfort in the fact that you’re getting the best quality for the best price possible…which is the best of both worlds.
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A great place to begin personalizing your wedding is with the save the dates; while wedding stationery is often quite formal, save the dates give you the freedom to be a bit more quirky and fun. Now, you don’t need to send save the dates–depending on how soon you’re getting married, and the number of people you’re planning on inviting, they might be an unnecessary expense. However, if you’re six months or more out from your wedding date and you’re planning on inviting a number of people from out of town, save the dates are a great way to ask your friends and family to keep you in mind as they make plans for both the time and expense of travel. It’s also a great place to include your wedding website information if you’d rather not include it on the formal invitations. I know that as soon as I receive a save the date, I tack it up on the fridge so as not to forget–and looking at any of the following save the dates would make me smile every single time.
Seriously, how cute are these? So stinking adorable!
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So it’s almost the end of January: have you been slacking on your resolutions already? The ones where you promised to work out more or take more time for you? BUSTED. Here’s something that will help you get back on track with both: YogaDownload.
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Oh, we’re not done yet, BABs! In this week’s Five for Friday, I scoured the Interwebz for sweet, lace bridesmaids dresses. I dug up a variety of shapes, sizes and colors … and all under $75! Feast your eyes, darlings!
xoxo – Christen
What do you think, ladies? Are you going with beautiful lace for your beautiful ladies on your wedding day?