Manifesting Destiny

We’re of the belief that we create much of our own destiny. I think you get back what you put out. Maybe its quantum physics. Maybe its simply the power of “having a goal”. Who knows how it works, but I do believe that there is something to the “law of attraction” and I try to practice it – if for nothing else than to keep me focused, proactive, and growing. Because, sister, if you’re not growing, you’re dying. I believe in the power of positive thought and infinite possibility. That’s just my outlook. It keeps me going.

Yes, I’m talking about….. (Cue Oprah yell) “THE SECRET!!!!!!” – or something like it.

With that in mind, meet our new destiny:

This house just came on the market, across the street from us. It will be ours. No, we don’t have the money for it. YET. But we will.

We’ll have dinners here, enjoying the view….

We currently enjoy a view just like this, and would hate to give it up when we move.

If its chilly out, or we’re feeling fancy, we could dine right here.

After cooking dinner in this AMAZING kitchen! (that’s my dream oven, yes it is.)

Granite countertops? C’mon, that’s just overkill, right?!?!

The master bedroom will suit us just fine.

And so will the claw foot tub. But I think my favorite part is…..

The outdoor shower! Wait, let me get a little closer for you….

Its actually OUTSIDE! That’s hot like wow.

This patio is just off the master bedroom. Hunter and I have dreamt of having palm frond fans since Amsterdam 6 years ago.

And the nice big yard beyond is just perfect for Paco to romp on.

On the reals, it’s got a little bit of everything we’ve always wanted in a home, in the perfect location. So, the plan now is to make it ours. My first step is putting it on here – announcing my intention to the Universe. You hear me out there, Universe? This is the one! Now, we just have to come up with the money. Any suggestions?

This is just the motivation I need to pull me out of the PWD. I feel so much clearer now. I have love. I have a goal. I have faith. And I have unlimited potential. What could be better?

Have you used positive visualization to keep you focused on a goal?

Dana
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55 Responses to “Manifesting Destiny”


  1. Anonymous

    That house is gooooooooooooooorgeous.

  2. Mo

    Outdoor shower? Yes please!!
    =D

  3. Kristin @ bridal buzz

    Um, I just swallowed my gum. It's truly beautiful and timeless, not to mention FLAWLESS!

    Best of luck to you both, I'll be sending my vibes your way.

  4. KLaw

    Wow. That house is absolutely amazing!

    And yes, there is something to be said for the power of positive thinking. I'm a glass half empty kind of girl for the most part and we've unfortunately suffered some bad things as of late. Hopefully I can take a cue from you and turn some things around.

  5. theniftynewlywed

    That house is gorgeous! Congrats!!

  6. Event Girl

    Beautiful House – Your intention is strong, can't wait to hear about the Housewarming party:)

  7. SG

    Beautiful house! I can't wait to read all the updates!

  8. hisbirdie

    WOW that house is Gorgeous! I want that bathroom!
    The power of positive thinking is a wonderful thing :)

  9. Kristen

    That house is gorgeous! I'm trying to figure out the garage. Is it completely detached with a patio on the top, or is there a way to get into the house from inside the garage.

    That bathroom is amazing. What happens when it rains though, with the outdoor shower? What about bugs? Of course I am in the South where the palmetto bugs and thundershowers abound…

    Seriously though, I love everything about that house. I'm gulping just thinking about the price…but it IS a down market!

  10. inkOBSESSIONdesigns

    What a beautiful house!!

  11. ya

    wow. that is the sweetest house ever! I would love love love to live in it too!

  12. theparakeet

    LOVE IT!!! and yes – I have a vision board and it fabulous. put pictures of the house up in your current place. concentrate on them five minutes a day. imagine yourself living there, eating there, etc.

  13. Julienne

    That is so beautiful, and the outdoor shower is pretty much the coolest thing ever. The kitchen is stunning!

  14. Bridelines

    Amazing house. What state? I use positive visualization to make sure my bridezilla friends dont drive me nuts :)

    http://bridelines.blogspot.com

  15. {The Perfect Palette}

    I'm loving the kitchen & that awesome porch area!!!!

  16. Sara lee

    that house is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!! you are so going to get that house!:)

  17. Emilia Jane

    I have always wished for an outdoor shower! What neighborhood are you in?

  18. un-bride

    ooh … drool.

  19. One Barefoot Bride

    wow! gorgeous – home sweet home. i predict you get an *awesome* job offer within the week….

  20. Bikini By 30

    It's so lovely! Where's my room?

  21. EarthCafeLady

    WOW. You SOOOOO inspire me w/your humor, your sass, your boundless creativy, and now-with your call to the universe to manifest what you've focused on!! That house is ridiculously "y'all"…definitely has your name written all over it! (if the asking price is above what you're able to finance , depending on the listing type, you may be able to just approach the owner directly & see if they'd entertain a lease option or lease purchase, w/a slightly attractive incentive built in…(not to undermine the efforts of the agent at all…just a thought to try to figure a creative way to get you IN to the house. The asking price has a 5% commission built in…maybe there's a way to cut that down and prove a win for all parties involved). Anyhoo, you're a creative thinker, so I'm sure if there's a way, you'll find it!
    I really just wanted to thank you for the tons of INSPIRATION you've provided me in the short time since I happened upon your blog (about a week!). I've found myself scrambling to put on a completely snazzy affair , after learning that the wedding my parents were planning for me had the financial support WITHDRAWN as a result of my wanting to have a vegan & eco-friendly wedding. (My father is a very "forward thinker", as you can tell.) Rather than stay in a completely deflated space, I found santuary on the net, & have become inspired through people's CREATIVE ways of pulling off a fantastic (& not life-savings draining) event! I'm launching a website to help other brides in my position as well (will I ever get any sleep??), and again, thank you for the inspiration I draw from your fantastic approach to all things wedding! You're a true artist, & I wish you all the best in your marriage & in life!!
    Sincerely,
    :) Candy T.

  22. Broke-ass Bride

    @Kristen: I figure we could just wash the bugs down the drain. It hardly ever rains here anyway :)

    @Bridelines: Cali, baby!

    @Emilia Jane: Silverlake (what what!)

    @Bikini by 30: 2nd bedroom. Its yours. :)

  23. Broke-ass Bride

    @Candy T: Wow. THANK YOU. What a beautiful compliment! You can do it. YOU CAN! Pretty soon, I will reveal some of my super secret tricks to save, and hopefully you'll be able to use them to make your (amazing sounding) wedding come true!

  24. CheapAndEasy

    It's fantastic! I absolutely believe you can do it. Right across the street? Meant to be, I tell ya! The rest will work itself out. I'd put it out there in my thoughts for you too but ya know, they aren't always so positive right now. But I'm working on it…

  25. east side bride

    Um. Putting it out into the universe?

  26. Jessica

    LOVE the house!!!!! Its gorgeous!!!!!!

  27. mimi

    i just went to the open house there yesterday! what a pretty little house.

  28. Skye

    Ah… if only wishing for a house would make it come true! I'm guessing at least a $1.3 mil tag on that one… if it was in the neighborhood I'd want in LA it'd be around $2.7, so my guess will be in the middle.
    We wished for a home forever (and make over $250k/year) in LA, and had to up and leave to make it happen.

  29. Anonymous

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE that shower!!!!!

  30. MeanDonnaJean

    "Have you used positive visualization to keep you focused on a goal?"

    I sure 'nuff have…..but I'm STILL waitin' on that damn Publishers Clearing House van to come down my block 'n knock!!!

  31. Christie

    This is an absolutely stunning house. I am in love with it, too!

  32. Esther

    Oh goddd . that house is so beautiful! I mean it must be really expensive and all, yeah ? But it's worth it . really worth it. For such a beautiful housee . it's so cosyy. (:

  33. Belleza Plena

    It will be yours :-) Much success!

  34. Connor

    That house it so nice, I wish I lived there. That outdoor shower is so cool

    http://alitllebitofthisthatandthose.blogspot.com/

  35. Jennifer @ Lil' Angel Gifts

    Wow.
    I've been putting out "house vibes" to the universe too (we need a wheelchair accessible house for our son), but I guess I'm not aiming high enough. Outdoor shower?!?! That was very cool. I think I need to re-evaluate!

  36. Roon

    Wow !!!… really loved this blog – and this blogpost in particular. Its so full of life and zest… you must be a great person to know .. all the very best. That house aint going noweher but to you :-)

  37. kendarinews

    this house is amazing and beautiful

  38. Sallyanne

    Wonderfull! better than mine

  39. the organic kitchen

    I bet you get it or one just like it soon enough!

  40. Stephanie

    What a great space! I hope your dream comes true…and, wow, that outdoor shower is somethin' else. That's awesome. :)

  41. Hannah

    I went to look at that house! It is so amazing. I love the outdoor shower too. And the deck is perfect for blogging on the laptop while drinking coffe. Dig it.

    Has it sold yet?

  42. Victoria Chan

    wow!! that house IS amazing!!! I hope you get it!!!

  43. Anonymous
  44. wasun

    nice pic !!

    ีummmm i think i like that house ^^

  45. ******SuZy_Q_2009******

    oh that is so beautiful, my favorite is the bathroom and the open deck :)

  46. ******SuZy_Q_2009******

    My favorite is the kitchen wish I had a kitchen like that.

  47. Jae

    This would be my dream home.

  48. Lisa

    Love your blog and the dream house!!
    Looking forward to wedding pictures!
    Lisa in Kentucky

  49. Deb's Creative Art

    It's B E A U T I F U L…

    Put it out there girl!!! Put those pictures on a vision board and cut pictures of you and your new hubby out and pen them to the pictures… now you can SEE yourself living there on paper, not only in your minds eye :) …. Love the SECRET!!!

  50. Trina S.

    What a beautiful home!

  51. Sunshine

    The house is so beautiful!!

  52. California Girl

    What LA neighborhood is this?

  53. Alex Rodriguez

    I want that shower!

  54. Indie B

    It's amazing! The outdoor shower is so cool!

  55. SkippyMom

    I wish you all the best – it is GORGEOUS! and that outdoor shower? I want.want.want!!!! Or the backyard…or um…the stove. Can I have the stove? Yep definitely a house to love and cherish.

    May your dream come true! Can't wait to hear when you move in. :)


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